Love Marriage, Gun Milan Method And Manglik Dosh

November 4, 2012 in Vedic Astrology

1. During the time of Ramayana & Mahabharata there was no concept of matching the charts. As we all know, Rama’s was Swayamvara. Draupadi’s was Swayamvara. What does Swayamvara mean? Either the bride had the rights to choose groom or those who won some challenge were allowed to marry.

2. During the occasion of Draupadi Swayamvara, Karna had lifted the Bow but she refused to marry a soota putra (son of a charioteer).

3. When all Kshatriyas failed, king Drupada asked Brahmins to try.  So, intercaste marriages were present at that time also with the permission of Kings/Dharma Shastras. In addition to this I can add examples of Sages Bhrigu, Chyavana, Agastya-Kaveri, Jamadagni-Renuka, Yayati-Devayani etc.

[crp]4. Till Prithviraj-Samyukta period we can notice Swayamvara

So matching system of Gun Milan is recent development which doesn’t work at all. I have seen those who have scored 34/36 getting divorce within few days to few months. If that system is correct, whole globe must have accepted it by this time as western people really weep when we predict divorce for 2nd time. Think about people of East also who are having pretty good stable married life with an average of 80+%!!!

Matching the charts is an art which needs great skill like Plus & Minus theory or better I say evaluating the charts totally. For example there is a concept that a manglik person should marry a manglik person only. Mars represents Fire/Agni tatva, in Astrology. Suppose we add Fire to Fire, it becomes bigger fire! So if a male or girl is having short temperament the other should have extra patience! I hope you got it.

If  the love is pure, Jaimini Darakarakas will be either same or will have Mutual aspect in both the charts. In your case Moon is the Darakarak (DK) for both & there is mutual aspect (Jaimini aspect) in main chart. So forget about Gun Milan method. It is a ready reckoned based on birth stars. 1 star will remain for around 24 hours for the entire globe & if you match a person born in China with same birth star (who eats snake) it gives same points out of 36! If you match with 90 years old person from Africa also it gives same points! Please try to convince these points to elders.

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